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Aha...So Be it...Batter UP!
Texas is big but it could be worse. I have Arizona Syndrome. Check the biomes, check the elevations, check the cultures, this seemingly small place has some of the greatest contrast in the least distance in the US. It could be worse again. Check the railroad density of the eastern seaboard. You have places where three companies crossed each other at different heights at the same place.
The dream cannot be squelched. Do not squelch it. Tame it, but do not let it die. When it dies, this hobby effectively ends and a new pursuit fills the void. The dream is important.
Dream layouts suit all builders. Some of us will get our chance, many of us will not, but I dare say the most important part is not whether you get it but what you do while you keep trying to realize your dream. It does not matter how much you buy, it does not matter if you use everything you buy, all that matters is if you enjoy what you're doing living your dream as you are able to live it.
If publishers had small layout articles to publish, by golly they would publish them!! They can't publish what they haven't received, but then, the people making small layouts simply don't seem to be interested in publishing their work. So be it. If people aren't building them, you can't make people like doing something they don't want to do, even if it's the same subject as what they like doing!
The biggest issue in our modern era is this matter of competing time thieves. There are so many things to do, and so many of those things are fun and fulfilling, that it is utterly impossible to keep up with all of them. Each scale is an exponential increase in time allocation assignments, some of us are even involved in 1:1 modeling, which had might as well be a new hobby all unto itself. Don't even ask about all the other hobbies that are available!
Many of us used to have modules that we took to shows. Many of us no longer take modules to shows because it's a heck of a lot easier to show up, see what's there, and then hit the tables hoping for a great snack. Chances are, we hit the tables first and then see the sights later, the sights aren't for sale and they'll still be there mid day!!
There's this pervasive negative modern attitude towards potential that is sitting and not being used. I say, So what? Yes, there's a great big pile of wonderful things not being used, but they bring the person who owns them great joy, so why should anybody be concerned about how much use they put into those things? Let it set, let it be. Let it pass on to the next generation, they will appreciate it in every bit their own way when it becomes available. There's no prizes here for who gets the most usage out of their collection!!
Many of us satiate the dream for Texas or Arizona or Everywhere East by joining a club. Clubs offer the size and the space. They do not offer the freedom. Clubs also offer community, which may or may not be important to some people. Some people go through this hobby and you never would have known they existed even if you had asked every model railroader in their area. That's the way they like it.
In the old days there was the printed community, and it had some benefits, but it was essentially akin to keeping in touch with someone via the pony express and a telegraph. Thus we needed clubs and swap meets to enjoy physical community, a fellowship that takes many of us beyond Just Trains and into matters of humanity that benefit all of us. Nowadays, this may be even less important to some now that we also have the option to enjoy a virtual community.
The NMRA is old hat developed and established in an era long past in the midst of the Greatest Generation, 1935. Most of the organizations like it are all long gone or so changed you would no longer recognize them. In that era, you had to be in the club to get any sort of news, and to be in the club there was no better start than this national club. This was how we did Community in 1935.
All the heroes of the day were in it, and at heart it is our grandfather's and father's organization, and I say this knowing many of you are of father or grandfather generational status to me. Believe it or not, there's a whole generation after me, they're all here; the next generation after them has Already Started. So here we are 5 effective generations after the start of the NMRA (Greatest, Boomer, Gen-X, Millenial, iGen-Z, AA) trying to measure the success of first generation instruments with first generation instruments without recognizing there's this fifth generation discord that simply doesn't have an interest in grandpa's handbook.
There's a new handbook. And each one of these groups has their own community, with offshoots leading to the communities bookending each generation, with fewer and fewer offshoots between communities the further apart that they exist. Every generation reinvents the wheel but then every generation starts with a void where the older generation's institutions are not able to fill the role for that new generation. Every new generation decides to do things their way, and it's usually not well received by the previous generation unless you can somehow convince them that it was their idea first - Joe knows full well about this, Model Railroader is an institution deeply embedded and entrenched in our Grandpa's era, when he went to them with the idea for an Online magazine, they said no. He then made his own organization and now here we are today enjoying this rather fine watering hole. But still, people will ask how we can get more people to subscribe to MR, or the NMRA, the org doesn't matter in this instance!!! When you tell the kids no, they go make their own club!
People aren't in the NMRA because they simply don't want to be in the NMRA. No amount of prizes, gimmicks, bribes or handshakes are going to bring them over. It's not their generational community. You have this IPMS Community. They do not want to be part of the NMRA community, even if they were model railroaders, because they already have a community. Many of them have only the virtual community, and they do very well with that method of reaching each other. Those people who already have a forum they call their central hub know how difficult it is to be on more than one hub, or to find the time to review more than one hub.
On our side Joe suggests only perhaps 10% of MRH subscribers purview the forums and only perhaps 1-3% actually use the MRH Forums. Virtual community or at least virtual community here at MRH is simply not the average MRH Subscriber's preferred community format for sharing their hobby. You can't change who people are.
What can we modelers do? We can continue enjoying our hobby and living the dream. That's all we can do. That's all we really need to do. If you're an armchair modeler, may the next layout be the most glorious armchair any of us have ever seen. You do you, I'll do me, and we'll all reach the same terminus in our own time. After that, to be quite frank, it will not matter how much or how little you did. So Enjoy it while you have it!!