It's impressive that you'd
It's impressive that you'd like to use steel. I admire your energy. Some engineering things to consider about the design, though, that will govern your results no matter how you build up your benchwork support:
1) Aluminum versus steel: Aluminum is 3 times more flexible than steel, if all dimensions are the same. You want the benchwork to stay stable. You'll need a nominal 1" wide by 2" tall aluminum tube of the same thickness as the 1" square steel to give the same stiffness. Stiffness is measured as how much the layout will sag when there's a weight on top. Like if you lean on the edge a bit to construct scenery at the back edge, or lean on the front edge to uncouple a car at the back edge. Will cars on the track at the front roll or even derail if the benchwork sags.
2) Since either welding or bolting are going to be slow compared to working with wood, perhaps fewer joints would be a good thing. To achieve this the length of a benchwork section could be as long as is reasonable. For example, if the support legs are 8 feet apart and the tube is 1 x 1, and imagine someone leans on it with a 40 lb force (reasonable) then the front edge will deflect about 5/16 of an inch. Not too bad. If the span between legs goes out to 12 feet and the same person leans on the center of it with that 40 pound force, the deflection will be 1.375 inches - a whole lot more.
3) If you did the above experiment with aluminum tube of the same 1x1x1/8" thick, at 8 feet long the frame would deflect down about 7/8", which seems like a lot. If the legs are 12 feet apart, the deflection is a ridiculous 3 and a half inches.
Perhaps a good design would be to weld up some rectangular frames and bolt them together, with legs bolted close enough to give you the support you want. Then put plywood or whatever top material onto those frames. As long as you get the steel to support the perimeter you'll have benchwork you can build on.
Don't know if you can do this, but what about ripping plywood to make wood boards for the frame? Perhaps 3/4 plywood, cut to the width of other wood available in your area, could substitute for buying "solid" wood? I've used plywood ripped to 3.5 inches and 5.5 inches to match nominal 1x4 and 1x6 pine. Since I don't know how to weld either this was a good solution for me. Also, the plywood is MUCH less likely to warp in the direction of the cut edge. If you build a frame with it, it will stay flat with changes in temperature and humidity. Actually better than solid wood. And you get to quickly build it with just ordinary screws and glue.
Welding thin material to get a respectable joint is not that easy. 1/8" is "thin" for most non-professional folks who weld. But the good thing is a model railroad won't need much joint strength. Any weld probably will be fine. I'd be more concerned about having enough electric power available in your apartment to power the welding machine.
Aluminum offers ease of cutting and ease of drilling. If it's available near you, maybe that's a good way to go. Just keep the support legs no farther than 6 feet apart. Angle brackets bolted through the parts could hold it all together. Just use some oil when cutting or drilling as aluminum wants to stick to steel tool surfaces.
Best wishes constructing your new layout!!
Kevin