NJ Devil's fan

To all;

Thank you for the kind welcome to your website. As I stated in my 1st blog, I am getting back into the hobby, thanks to my son. We watched a model train show on TV a few months ago and he (we) became facinated with model trains. I do have to admit that I am "pushing" him a bit to help me work on "his" layout. I just have to remember that he is 5 and his attention span changes with every new commercial on TV. I am trying to convince my wife that the trips to the hobby shop are indeed "educational". Furthermore, it's a father - son bonding experience. Besides, it gets him away from that Nintendo DS that belongs to his sister anyways. I am tring to involve everyone with the hobby. My daughter, who is 11 (loves to color and decorate things), already signed up for the "scenery session", when we get to that stage. That makes 3 out of 4 family members "ready to go". I'm sure that once the wife sees how much fun everyone is having, she will show support as well. I even told her she could pick out her very own engine. That did'nt go over as well as I planned but I'm sure if I throw in a new pair of shoes from the mall (a 2 for1 offer) maybe she will listen then.

About me, I am a "former" railroader. I left the railroad once the kids came along. You just sometimes have to make those decisions in life. I wanted my kids to know who daddy was. But, I still miss the job and someday hope I can get my "20 year pin". You can take the railroader away from the railroad but you can't take the railroad out of the railroader. It was, and is, a unique way of life. You may have worked for different railroads but you were all brothers. We all carry a certain passion for the job that sounds strange to those who were not part of it. There was always that sense of urgency on the railroad. The railroad was always moving and they needed people to move it. Friends would tell me that I "was nuts" for answering the phone at 2AM. But you did because the trains had to move. There is, at least to me, a sense of pride to be an engineer. It was a childhood dream of mine. I went to work at age 19 as a part-time signal maintainer. At age 20 I was hired by Conrail as a trainman (brakeman). By age 21, I was a certified engineer with Conrail. It's all I ever wanted to be. By age 21, I was living my dream. While some of my high school friends were still looking for a part time job, I was running UPS and mail trains over the Chicago Line at 70 MPH. It was something I strived for. I always wanted to work for the railroad and I was very fortunate to get that chance.

As with everything, life moves on. I now find myself fortunate to work for FedEx. I have a "normal" work schedule that has the family seeing me every evening and on weekends. That is unheard of on the railroad. I can now find time for the things that I "put aside" for a later time. That includes a model railroad. I have always been a "HO Scaler". I am just facinated with all the new products. It is a very exciting time to get back into the hobby. I can't wait to share my experiances with my kids. It makes me a kid gain too.

Steve

Still a NJ Devil's Fan!!!!! 
 
Steve
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Robert67

how to get wife into hobby

if your wife likes chocolate (and what wife doesn't)

go to micro-trains web site and show her the HERSHEY'S train set

that should spark an interest.

it got my wife into it now she does most scenery and painting the buildings.

Robert                                                                                                                          

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Hiwaypilot

The wife's support

My wife supports and encourages me mainly because she sees it as a break from the stress of work.  While she doesn't have any interest in helping with the layout, she and I do really enjoy excursion train rides and rail museum trips.  In fact, she has already planned this year's vacation trip via Amtrak.  Just something to consider.

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feldman718

How to get wife into hobby

I don't need to show my wife the Hershey train. If I did she would probably want to know why I want it and the fact is that I don't at this point.

I don't need chocolate to get here involved in the hobby since she has al;ready promissed to help with scenery and buildings. She has done any of it since I am not ready for that stage of the layout yet. I still need to get the base ready for the scenery a lkay track before anything else. There will be plenty of time for secenry and buildings when that is done.

Irv

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NJ Devil's fan

I may have given my wife a

I may have given my wife a bad image. Truth is that she is very supportive of me and my hobby. Just the fact that I am "home" more makes her happy. She likes the fact that the kids are showing an interest in something other than video games and text messaging now. I have nominated my daughter as the "scenery tech" in charge of "landscaping". She is doing a great job coming up with ideas for the layout. She loves to watch the Home and Garden Channel on TV and she is tranfering the ideas on TV to the Model Railroad. That's Daddy's Girl! My son, well. his interests are coming along. While at the hobby shop, I am trying to read up on the latest DCC information while he is getting excited about which Thomas the Tank Engine charestor is coming home with us. Gee Dad, he say's, "this would look great in your new yard". He is pointing to Percy. Ah kids, ya gotta love em. I must say that having Percy in the enginehouise next to that SD70 MAC is not what I imagined.

I'll keep ya posted on the outcome.

Steve Z
Still a NJ Devil's Fan!!!!! 
 
Steve
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Dave K skiloff

Percy, Edward and Thomas

My kids both started out that way, too, but have evolved into the more realistic trains they see every day.  My son has a Kato SD40-2 as his loco and my daughter has an old Kato E9.  They like the new trains and Thomas and Friends are becoming a fond memory, so I wouldn't worry about Percy running on your layout.  If it keeps him interested, he'll soon enough see how much "cooler" the real things are.

Dave
Playing around in HO and N scale since 1976

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feldman718

Percy and SD70MAC sharing a roundhouse.

Well it may not be what you imagined but I am sure it would make your wife happier to know that Percy is just as welcome in your roundhouse as he is on the TV show.

So what would be so terrible to have Percy or any of the other engines from the Thomas the Tank Engine stories on the layout? We are, afteralll, in this because we like trains and we certainly want our kids to come into the hobby. If this is what it takes, it's something worth doing.

Sure our fellow model railroaders migh say it's not prototypical but I am sure model railroading got a big boost as soon as the first Thomas show aired. If we want this hobby to go at least one more generation, we need to encourage young people to get involved. It is also probably a good idea for many of the kids who might never see a live train in their lives to get involved.

Irv

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NJ Devil's fan

doubleheader

What happens when dad wants to run the SD70MAC and junior wants to run Percy? Well, sometimes you just gotta give in. It made for a "unique" consist to say the least. Percy had to take the lead by default. He had no coupler on the front and had to be the leader.

I love this hobby. Now lets see that on the cover of Railpace or Trains Magazine!

Still a NJ Devil's Fan!!!!! 
 
Steve
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BlueHillsCPR

We watched a model train

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We watched a model train show on TV a few months ago and he (we) became facinated with model trains.

Steve,

Great to hear you and the kids are getting involved in the hobby.  I brought my wife into the hobby by showing her the level of scenic realism that is possible.

You might want to pick up the five dvd set from model trains video.  I got them for myself and the family, they are just great.  Really quite fun to watch.  My wife was amazed by the scenery, and while she has handcrafted some decent trees herself, she was quite impressed with the tree making segments of the scenery dvd's.  Our eleven year old was impressed too.  I think volume three on electrical and DCC makes the set a bargain.

I think the set has sparked the interest around here.

 

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